Bonnie M. Bendschneider

Bonnie M. Bendschneider, 85, of Fulton, NY, passed away on Tuesday, June 3, 2025, at Seneca Hill. Born in Palermo, NY, a daughter to the late Harvey and Hattie (Loomis) Graves. Bonnie enjoyed watching her soap operas and racing with her family. She was also a big SU sports fan. Bonnie was predeceased by her husband Clarence and her son Terry.

Surviving are her three children, Melody Poyneer, Tom Bendschneider, and Rodney Bendschneider; nine grandchildren, 30 great grandchildren, and three great-great grandchildren; one brother, Keith Graves; and several nieces and nephews.

Calling hours will be from 11am – 1pm on Monday, June 16th at Foster Funeral Home, 910 Fay Street Fulton, NY with a service to immediately follow at 1pm. Burial will be in Mt. Pleasant Cemetery. Everyone is welcome to attend a luncheon to celebrate Bonnie’s life following the burial at Fulton Alliance Church, 1044 State Route 48, Fulton.

Mom's Last Journey 

Mom you had your journey. Your walk was stormy at times with some sunny days.

I reflect on your life. We fall, but we get lifted up. God has held your hand.

I walk in the nursing home to see you. It was a long walk. I always say hi to everyone I pass by. When your family walks in to see you, your face lights up.

You loved your Dunkin Donuts coffee made your way.

When I come in to see you, you had that special smile, you would ask do you have some. You loved the coffee caramel candies. They became your favorite. You would say these are so good.

The food there was garbage food.

I love coming to visit you. I journaled, read “Jesus is Calling”, prayed, played cards, your way. I let you win. You wanted me to win too, so I did.

You loved the blanket with all your children on it. Before I would leave, I would rub your back and kiss your forehead. I told you I love you. I did whatever you needed before I left. I told you I would be back tomorrow.

I love you mom, eat and drink. The last day I said I'll be back tomorrow to play cards. I will call you first. So many there loved you.

Mom told me if I am alive. Before I walked out. Mom said I love you and thank you for helping me with everything.

She got knocked down, but got up, she climbed that mountain. She was that senior that graduated in high honors. She received her crown. Your spirit and memories live on. You are still a part of me. I love you momma Eternity.

See you again. Tell them all I said hi and I love them. I'm not saying goodbye but good night. Rest in peace my beautiful mom.

Written by your daughter

Melody